As we have gone along, we have continued to find things that got broke or were broken long ago but we just found it. Today I pulled both axles from the flanges.They are quite heavy but not messy...............or so I thought. I pulled the first one loose and there is grease everywhere behind the axle ( inside the flange. ) I pulled the second one and found the same. Once I got them to the bench, I see where a lot of the problems and broken parts came from.

The one on the left is from the passenger side. The axle itself has ( at some point ) been driven through the grease cap on the back of the trunion. You can also see where the balls in the trunion have been pressed against the grease seal hard enough to actually press large dimples in the metal. The one on the right is from the driver's side. I never did find the piece of metal from the hole.....I'm sure it is in there somewhere................I'll find it.
I believe that the grease caps were hit hardest on the very first move of the car when the wheels went way in. Both rear tires were cambered in all the way to the coil overs. Nothing ever got that bad again.
This sent me on a maddening trip through the what if thoughts on the rear suspension. Even got to the thought of scrapping the whole thing.
I ended up going back to the basics on how these axles work. The Caddy they came off of has the positioning on the outboard side where the splined shaft goes to the front wheels. This left the trunion in a controlled floating position. I have approached this using the trunion as the fixed point. It took a while to figure this all out but I think we have it now.
Both of the flanges that the trunions attach to have no back plate to stop the axles from moving in. we also have to consider the grease caps on the trunions. The solution is to machine a piece of 1/2 " aluminum at 4 3/4 inches in diameter. We will insert half the depth of the spacer into the trunion where the grease seal was. The remaining 1/4 " will go into the flange were it will seat in the flange. This will provide a fixed position for the axle shaft to bottom against. I am going to buy 2 new cast steel yokes to finish off the axles. There is no reason this won't work.
Just as a side note : We pulled the pan off the trans just to verify we had done nothing to the trans when this breakage occurred. We found no sign of problems. I will get a little deeper in the next day or so just to veryify no damage.
more to follow