Everything went together as planned, the car is running well and I am happy (minus leak from converter seal

Both issues I am "assuming" are PG/Converter related.
First is that when the car is shifted to reverse, it goes right into gear but once I begin to accelerate, it takes a few seconds for it to catch (stall converter assuming) but once it does it begins to chatter and the entire car feels like its falling apart. If I let go of the throttle it stops and if I goose it good in reverse instead of going slowly, it doesn't seem to happen. It's only when you would be driving cautiously in reverse like backing out of a parking spot etc that it chatters. I can manipulate it if I play with the throttle but no matter what it is still there, especially when hot. Thoughts???
Second is that in general (and yes i've driven this car with original and other PG cars before) since the new PG/Converter, the car itself just doesn't seem to accelerate like it should from a stop. I know that again there is bit of a delay with a stall converter but I feel as though its just not "connecting" the way it should until the car begins to build momentum. Sometimes when driving locally and going from light to light it will resemble "slipping" but there is no engine surging, it just seems to hold an rpm until everything gets going and then it catches and begins to build power (very tough to explain). When I say slipping it's not like a typical slip where engine speed would flare and the power is lost, this is more of a delay of full power getting to the rear wheels similar to a centrifugal clutch which makes me suspect the converter. Again I understand how a higher stall converter works but this "delay in power" seems excessive. Sometimes from a dead stop it will take a full 5-7 seconds before the power from the engine will begin to make the car move like it should. It does drive but very slowly until like I stated earlier "everything catches".
All fluids are correct, level is perfect and once it does get going it cruises no problem with plenty of power and even passing power (again no slipping). Had it up around 80mph over the weekend, car is running great otherwise!
PG shifts, downshifts perfectly too.
Has anyone ever had any similar symptoms? I'm kind of stumped but again i'm leaning towards a possible bad converter.